Think about it this way, when you and your spouse are in an argument that seems to stretch on for a few days, is it easier when you see each other to do the "right thing" or is it easier to feel love for each other? Is it easier to...
- Say hello, good bye and see ya latter
- Stop and pick up the groceries they text you to bring home
- Not yell in front of the kids
- Even say "love ya" at night before you role over (even though you say it with a bit of attitude)
- Feel passion for them
- Put their needs ahead of your own
- Kiss them tenderly when you see each other
- Surprise each other with a gift
- Cuddle and talk about the day before falling asleep
So often it seems like many Christians relate to Jesus and and the Christian life out of behavior that is more like the couple fighting (doing the right things but with no true love or passion) than the couple truly in love.
It's from our heart that we are to live for Christ but, truthfully it's easier to give Him our actions than our heart
In the Old Testament book of Jeremiah God confronts the people of Israel on this very way of relating to Him when He says to them, "They have turned their backs to me and not their faces."
When your back is facing a person but you're looking at them it still means your entire body is facing another way. It means that you are moving AWAY from the person even if you're looking at them.
See, Israel had gotten good at looking religious and turning to God when it seemed convenient but they had lost their
LOVE for Him
It's about our hearts changing not our actions. LOVE the Lord your God not OBEY your God. The former WILL produce the latter but switch the order and you have either a dead or arrogant faith. A faith that might not even look, bad but a faith in which the passion and love of your heart for Jesus, is not what you're living from.
I wonder what would be different if each day we asked God to increase our love and passion for Him. Are you more attentive to your actions as a Christians or your heart? What would it look like for you to begin to pay more attention to, and give more energy to developing your passion and love for Jesus?